I’m sure I used to do things on Friday nights, fun things, going out things. Well, now I am collapsed in front of the West Wing at 9pm wondering if it’s too soon to go to bed. Motherhood. Is. Exhausting.
It has been the most exhausting few days, and it’s not over yet.
I was warned that when baby bear went to nursery he would pick up every bug and illness going, but I definitely wasn’t prepared. I also slightly deluded myself into thinking that breastfeeding would keep him safe from this onslaught. Well this week he has picked up his first infection – there is really nothing like being at work and being called to be told your son has a rash. Rashes scare mummies and this is baby bear’s first one. And I was in the wrong place. And even when I got home, I couldn’t commit to, or cuddle, my ill baby until a few hours later. Going back to work just really isn’t easy, and just as I was beginning to get used to it this happens.
Anyway, a doctor’s visit later, baby bear is now on antibiotics and I just hope he starts getting better now. He’s been so brave as I think he’s actually been ill since Tuesday, certainly teething and battling his first temperature. If only he could have told us it was his ears that were hurting, poor little thing. Maybe it’s good for his immune system, but I can’t help feeling terribly sad that this is my fault for going back to work. When babies are ill they suddenly seem very small and fragile, and it breaks my heart to see him fighting it so bravely.
And to compound a busy work week and an ill baby bear, this week we also had a power cut that lasted two days. Food gone in the fridge, a house rigged up on extension cables, and things falling apart generally. Thank goodness back up and running now.
Well, it’s the weekend now. I think it may actually rain tomorrow (to illustrate the week’s events) but maybe we need a day to regroup and look after baby bear at home. I certainly don’t want to be doing much more than holding him close and willing him to get better.